Published On: August 19th, 2025 / Categories: Updates / 3 min read /

Why we went back to the core of digital legacy

Sometimes all you want is to just…

hold someone.

see someone.

say something.

And it’s that little word ‘just’, that holds the reason we started My Heartspace in the first place.

When we tried to fit everything into one app

Two years ago, we started building. Driven by a deep desire to create something that could hold everything: videos, audio, memories, wishes, advice, photos, a digital archive of love.

We meant well. But we overlooked something important. The people using our app don’t have endless time. They often have just a moment. And they don’t want to spend that moment filling out an app. They want to spend it with their children. Their partner. Their friends. In real life. Not behind a screen. But we were still asking for their time. We were asking for their energy, when they had so little left to give.

” We were asking for time, from people who don’t have much time. That truth hit hard. ” Sabine (co-owner My Heartspace)

What we heard from people saying goodbye

We spoke with people in their final stage of life. With loved ones. With doctors. And we kept hearing the same things:
“I just don’t know where to start.”
“I don’t want to spend my last weeks inside an app.”
“I’m living now. That’s all I’ve got.”

And they were right. We were asking for time, from people who don’t have much time. That truth hit hard. But it was honest.

So we went back to the drawing board

  • No more subscriptions

    What happens to a subscription when someone dies? That’s not something you should worry about — or leave to your loved ones. Now, you simply pay per message. Easy. Transparent.

  • Free access to inspiration section

    Our library of 350+ questions is now available to everyone. Because if you don’t know where to begin, you deserve support, not a paywall.

  • A clear focus on messages after death

    In the old version, you could send messages during life too. But it blurred the purpose. Now, My Heartspace is fully focused on one meaningful moment: a message delivered after you’re gone, when you choose.

  • Worldwide access

    The app is now available in both English and Dutch, for anyone with an internet connection. Because love and goodbyes know no borders.

What hasn’t changed: our intention

We started this because of our own grief. And that’s still what drives us. But we’re building differently now, less from our ideas, more from the voices of those who truly need this. You.

We’re proud of this new version. Not because it’s bigger. But because it’s more honest. More human. Closer to what really matters.

Try it yourself

We invite you to take a look.
Browse the questions.
See how it feels.
Start if it feels right.

Just one message is enough. 💛

From the heart,

Sabine & Julian

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